Drunk-ish: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving Alcohol

by Stefanie Wilder-Taylor

Overview

From the author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay, a hilariously candid and refreshingly honest account of Stefanie Wilder-Taylor’s journey to breaking up with alcohol for good.

When Stefanie Wilder-Taylor became a mother, being able to connect with other moms over drinks or enjoy a glass of wine at the end of a stressful day felt life-affirming. From liquor cabinet concoctions in high school to tequila shots in her early stand-up comedy days to grocery store wine in young motherhood, alcohol was the seasoning that could give almost any activity more flavor. A drink instantly took the edge off and made even the most difficult adversary (be it a tough crowd in a comedy club or a judgmental PTA mom) not just bearable but fun.

As the years go by, Stefanie wonders if her relationship with alcohol is different from other people’s. Is everyone else struggling this hard to moderate? Is it even legal to watch The Bachelor without a glass of white wine?

Having spent a lifetime grappling with the question of whether or not she is a “real” alcoholic, one evening brings Stefanie close to the edge of losing it all. Miraculously unscathed, she decides that she doesn’t need to dive all the way down to a stereotypical rock bottom before deciding to stop drinking; if sobriety will improve her life, that’s a good enough reason to quit. Stefanie’s memoir is a tender and funny farewell letter to a beloved but toxic friend.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781797172620
Publisher:	Simon & Schuster Audio
Publication date:	01/16/2024
Product dimensions:	5.80(w) x 5.70(h) x 0.60(d)

About the Author

Stefanie Wilder-Taylor is an author, TV personality, and cohost of the popular podcast For Crying Out Loud. She cocreated and hosted the late-night comedy parenting show Parental Discretion with Stefanie Wilder-Taylor for NickMom on Nickelodeon. She’s the author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay; Naptime Is the New Happy Hour; It’s Not Me, It’s You; I’m Kind of a Big Deal; and Gummi Bears Should Not Be Organic. She’s appeared on Good Morning America, 20/20, The Dr. Oz Show, Dr. Phil, Larry King Live, and Today. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband, her three delightful teenagers, and her dog, Penelope.

Editorial Reviews

11/06/2023

A mother drags herself kicking and screaming into sobriety in this raucous memoir from humorist Wilder-Taylor (Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay). Recapping her fraught relationships with booze and other addictive substances, from the candy she binged and purged as a teenager to the Xanax she scarfed to subdue postpartum anxiety, Wilder-Taylor writes that her reasons for drinking were manifold: to get over shyness, to soothe her stage fright before stand-up gigs, because drinking a little felt good enough to drink a lot. Waking up hungover one morning after driving home drunk from a friend’s house with her toddlers in tow, she decided to quit alcohol and join Alcoholics Anonymous, which felt like “the world’s dullest book club, because instead of reading the latest Oprah Winfrey discovery, the only book up for discussion was a boring one about people in the 1930s who couldn’t quit drinking.” Wilder-Taylor paints a vivid, self-skewering portrait of alcoholic delusion and dysfunction, from dubious rationalizations (“All of those studies say red wine has antioxidants in it that prevent heart disease. I mean, are you trying to have a heart attack?”) to mortifying physical indignities (an explosive bout of drunk vomiting is described as “a July Fourth fireworks finale”). The results are funny, neurotic, and woozily uplifting. (Jan.)

Publishers Weekly

[A] vivid, self-skewering portrait of alcoholic delusion and dysfunction...[DRUNK-ISH is] funny, neurotic, and woozily uplifting.”
—Publishers Weekly

“Drunk-ish [is] a brave, entertaining book, with much to say about living in our times ... told with wit, intelligence, and engaging honesty.”
—Kirkus Reviews

“Wilder-Taylor's inimitable ability to latch onto humor even in the darkest of times is most refreshing. A perfect balance of bold honesty and riotous wit takes the edge off her culpability as she faces startling truths enroute to accepting the empowerment of sobriety.”
—Shelf Awareness

“I relate to this woman’s journeys in ways that have been a little bit unparalleled ...[Drunk-ish] is humorous and human...it's the best read ever. I was reading this book and going, 'is this about me?'... I am obsessed with this book. I love it so much.”
—Drew Barrymore

“Written in a hilarious, confessional style...[P]erfect for anyone who has gotten through—or is getting through—parenthood, drinking and everything in between.”
—Zibby Owens

“Honest, funny, tender...a roller coaster of a book. You will love this candid and funny memoir even if you're not sober. Trust me.”
—Jenny Lawson, New York Times bestselling author of Let’s Pretend this Never Happened

“Currently sober, pregnant, and working from home, reading Drunk-ish felt like a warning and a memory at the same time. Any alcoholic will recognize themselves in Stephanie’s story, but so will any parent who loves parenting, and any parent who secretly worries they might hate it. This book is honest in a way that’s scary, funny and exciting—like having a therapist who’s way too good at their job.”
—Rosebud Baker, standup comic and Saturday Night Live writer

“From the fog of her youthful indiscretions to the trick mirror of mommy wine culture, Wilder-Taylor is relentlessly and often hilariously self-scrutinizing. But even as she states difficult truths, the heart of her story is one of enduring forgiveness.”
— Meghan Daum, author of The Problem With Everything

“I expected Stefanie's account of her love affair with drinking, and subsequent sobriety, to be laugh-out-loud hilarious and eye-opening. I didn't expect it to also be incredibly poignant and intimate. Drunk-ish blew me away. You'll want to turn to the person next to you and read passages aloud (I did). It's clever, vulnerable, and real.”
—Laura Cathcart Robbins, author of Stash

“Drunk-ish is raw, hilarious and intoxicating. We ride the waves of self-revelation much as one would a sugar-high—with wild, rollicking glee and the unavoidable crash into a sober and ultimately more gratifying life.”
—Melissa Bond, author of Blood Orange Night

From the Publisher

2023-09-05
A sharp, self-deprecating look at overcoming addiction.

In her latest book, Wilder-Taylor recounts her relationship with alcohol and her painful journey to sobriety. She previously wrote several books, including Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay and Naptime Is the New Happy Hour, about how alcohol helped her take the edge off the strains of being a new mother while juggling a career as a comedy writer. She admits that she had always drank too much, and with a wry eye on her own foibles, she explains how booze had become the center of her social and emotional life, even while she was hiding her level of consumption from her husband. The author offers plenty of funny jokes about her capacity for self-deception, while a part of her admitted that her drinking was sliding out of control. The turning point was when she realized she had driven home while falling-down drunk, with her children in the car. She started going to AA meetings and was, after a huge effort, able to quit. Giving up prescription drugs was another battle. Soon, a new round of addictions emerged, including candy, computer games, and even her cellphone. They were not as harmful as alcohol, but she knew that she needed to conquer them for her psychological peace. Once sober, she realized that many mothers of young children likewise drank too much. After she wrote about her battle with addiction on her blog she became a minor talk-show celebrity, although she had mixed feelings about it. All this could have easily turned into a melodramatic plea for sympathy, but Wilder-Taylor’s willingness to make fun of herself makes Drunk-ish a brave, entertaining book, with much to say about living in our times.

Wilder-Taylor’s story of becoming sober after years of drunkenness is told with wit, intelligence, and engaging honesty.

Kirkus Reviews