Do This, Not That: Dating: What to Do (and NOT Do) in 75+ Difficult Dating Situations

Do This, Not That: Dating: What to Do (and NOT Do) in 75+ Difficult Dating Situations

by Hayley Quinn
Do This, Not That: Dating: What to Do (and NOT Do) in 75+ Difficult Dating Situations

Do This, Not That: Dating: What to Do (and NOT Do) in 75+ Difficult Dating Situations

by Hayley Quinn

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Overview

A must-have step-by-step guide on what to do (and what NOT to do) while dating featuring clear instructions and helpful scripts so you can deal with any difficult circumstance in every aspect of your love life.

How do you deal with dating apps, that commitment question, or if you want kids but they don't? Do This, Not That: Dating is here to help with all your relationship situations.

Romantic relationships can be full of challenging situations and emotions, and no matter how passionate, frustrated, excited, or downright angry you feel, it’s important for you to communicate and find a solution that works for both you and your partner. Whether you’re struggling to find the right words or simply aren’t sure how to approach a topic, this book will give you the tools you need to move forward productively...or learn when to let go and move on.

In Do This, Not That: Dating, you’ll find eighty common relationship issues that cover everything from your first date to your first fight—and beyond. For each situation, you’ll discover exactly what to do and what to avoid, then learn exactly how to make it happen. Find tips to reframe your thinking, simple scripts to help you figure out what to say, and even advice on your next steps depending on your initial conversation. This book is your must-have guide to any unexpected situation relationships throw your way.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781507219690
Publisher: Adams Media
Publication date: 01/10/2023
Series: Do This Not That Series
Pages: 192
Sales rank: 1,045,001
Product dimensions: 6.20(w) x 8.10(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Hayley Quinn is a London-based dating coach who empowers men and women to enjoy a more fulfilling dating life with live coaching, hands-on tutorials, and guidance for any age or sexual orientation. From her popular Ted X talk to TV and radio appearances on BBC News and Celebs Go Dating, her goal is to help people feel confident and meet the people they deserve. She is the spokesperson for Match UK, the biggest online dating site in the world, and her work has been featured on Elle, Match, Cosmopolitan, and more. Learn more at HayleyQuinn.com.

Table of Contents

Introduction 8

How to Use This Book 10

1 Meeting Someone You Like 12

You're Wondering If You're Ready to Date 14

You Feel Like You Never Meet Anyone You Like 16

You Think You're Stuck Always Being "The Friend" 18

The Fear of Being Rejected Is Holding You Back 20

You Feel Very Anxious about Dating 21

You're Not over Your Ex Yet 24

You Don't Think You Have Enough Time to Date 26

You're Not Sure Where to Meet Someone 28

Your Friend Wants to Help with Your Dating Life 30

You Need Help Creating a Good Dating App Profile 32

You Don't Know What First Message to Send on a Dating App 34

You're Dealing with Someone Rude Online 36

You're Jealous of Friends Who Are Meeting That Special Someone 38

You're Attracted to Someone at Your Workplace 40

You're Worried about Ruining a Friendship 42

You Want to Meet Someone IRL 44

2 Going On a First Date 46

You Want to Ask Someone Out 48

Someone Asks You Out, but You're Not Interested 50

You're Feeling Nervous about Meeting Them 52

You Want to Be Safe on a First Date…Even If You're Excited 54

You Need to Decide Where to Go on a First Date 56

You Can't Figure Out Who Pays 58

You're Not Sure How to Get a Good Conversation Going 60

You're Trying to Decide How Personal Is Too Personal 62

You're Feeling Really Uncomfortable and Want to Leave 64

You're Not Sure Whether to Kiss on a First Date 66

You Really Like Them… Now What? 68

You Didn't Feel a Spark and Aren't Sure about Another Date 70

You Want to Be Honest about Past Relationships 72

You Thought You Were Going On a Date Together, but They Brought a Friend 74

You Like Them in Person, but Their Messages Seem Distant 76

You Want to Flirt with Someone Online 78

There's an Awkward Silence on Your Date 80

3 Getting to Know Each Other 82

You Are Having Trouble Being Vulnerable 84

You Don't Agree on Values or Politics 86

You Have Your First Fight 88

You Don't Like Their Friends, and Their Friends Don't Like You 90

You Are Scared to Meet Their Family 92

You're Not Sure How Upfront You Should Be about Wanting (or Not Wanting) Kids 94

You Need to Have the "What Are We?" Talk 96

Your Partner Is Being Controlling 98

You Are Struggling to Trust Your Partner 100

You're Spending the Night with Your Partner for the First Time 102

You Aren't Happy with Your Sexual Relationship 104

You Don't Have Any Hobbies in Common 106

Your Pet Doesn't Like Them 108

You're Planning Your First Vacation Together 110

Your Partner Is Addicted to Social Media 112

They Want to Take Things Really Slowly 114

They Keep Rescheduling Your Dates 116

4 Living Together 118

You Don't Agree on Where to Live 120

You Need to Figure Out Household Finances Together 122

You Need to Distribute Household Chores 124

You're Debating Getting a Pet Together 126

You Don't Agree On Who Is Going to Cook 128

You're a Night Owl and They're an Early Bird (or Vice Versa) 130

You Need Some Space 132

You Don't Like the Same Decor 134

Your Partner Wants to Have People Over More Than You Do 136

You Think Your Partner is Going Through Your Stuff 138

You Want to Talk about Marriage 140

You Are Considering Buying a House Together 142

You're Getting Cold Feet 144

You're Comparing Your Relationship to Other People's 146

Your Partner Wants to Move and You Don't Want To 148

5 Building a Long-Term Relationship 150

Your Sex Life Is Boring 152

Your Sex Drives Aren't In Sync 154

You Want to Break Up 156

Your Partner Is Being Abusive 158

You Are Fighting…a Lot 160

Your Partner's Been Unfaithful 162

You and Your Partner Aren't on the Same Page about Having Kids 164

You Are Having Fertility Issues 166

Your Relationship Changed Once You Had Kids 168

You and Your Partner Are Looking to Reconnect Now That Your Kids Are Moved Out 170

You Are Dealing with an Unexpected Death 172

You Need to Discuss What Will Happen If One of You Dies 174

You Don't Like Your Partner's Family, and They Don't Like You 176

You're Dealing with Your Partner's Ex 178

You're Missing Your Ex 180

You're Not Feeling Appreciated by Your Partner 182

Resource List 184

Index 187

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