Disaster Preparedness: A Memoir

Disaster Preparedness: A Memoir

by Heather Havrilesky


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A perceptive, witty memoir about the transformative humiliations of childhood-and adulthood-from a unique, already-beloved voice.

When Heather Havrilesky was a kid during the '70s, harrowing disaster films dominated every movie screen with earthquakes that destroyed huge cities, airplanes that plummeted towards the ground and giant sharks that ripped teenagers to shreds. Between her parents' dramatic clashes and her older siblings' hazing, Heather's home life sometimes mirrored the chaos onscreen.

A thoughtful, funny memoir about surviving the real and imagined perils of childhood and early adulthood, Disaster Preparedness charts how the most humiliating and painful moments in Havrilesky's past forced her to develop a wide range of defense mechanisms, some adaptive, some piteously ill-suited to modern life. From premature boxing lessons to the competitive grooming of cheerleading camp, from her parents' divorce to her father's sudden death, Havrilesky explores a path from innocence and optimism to self-protection and caution, bravely reexamining the injuries that shaped her, the lessons that sunk in along the way, and the insights that carried her through.

By laying bare her bumps and bruises, Havrilesky offers hope that we can find a frazzled and unruly, desperate and wistful, restless and funny and frayed-at-the-edges way of staring disaster in the face, and even rising to meet it head on. By turns offbeat, sophisticated, uproarious and wise, Disaster Preparedness is a road map to the personal disasters we all face from an irresistible voice that gets straight to the unexpected grace at the heart of every calamity.

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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781594487682
Publisher: Penguin Publishing Group
Publication date: 12/30/2010
Pages: 256
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.30(h) x 0.90(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

Heather Havrilesky grew up in Durham, North Carolina with a bossy older brother and sister, a submissive Beagle mix named Madge, a few brutal cats and a wide assortment of ill-fated rodents. After graduating from Duke University, she moved to San Francisco where she blended into the scenery by drinking too much and writing angry songs about unrequited love, although never in a rockabilly band. In 1995, she co-created the weekly cartoon Filler with illustrator Terry Colon for Suck.com, one of the most popular daily sites on the web. Filler ran for five years and was Suck.com's most popular feature. In 2001 she created the Rabbit Blog, enabling her to dispense peevish, misguided advice to innocent strangers. Her work has also appeared in Spin, New York, the Los Angeles Times, the Washington Post, BookForum, and NPR's "All Things Considered." Since 2003 Heather has been a senior writer on staff at Salon.com, where she covers television, pop culture and all other empty distractions that impede our progress as a species. She lives with her family in Los Angeles.

Table of Contents

Introduction 1

1 Cousins 72

2 Fear Itself 21

3 Faculty Wives 37

4 Jesus Must Die 59

5 D-l-V-O-R-C-E 71

6 Sting Like a Bee 89

7 Bobos 103

8 Cheer 115

9 With or Without You 135

10 The Toad Work 149

11 A Tree Falls in the Forest 169

What People are Saying About This

Meghan Daum

Heather Havrilesky captures the weird, chaotic, innocent-but-also-jaded, sweet-but-also-kind-of-rancid essence of childhood in the 1970s. And if that's not enough, she takes us—hilariously, painfully, utterly relatably—through the entropy of being a teenager in the 1980s. At once sharp and tender, Disaster Preparedness both laments and salutes what it means to belong to a family—and indeed an entire culture—that seems inherently unmoored. (Meghan Daum, author of My Misspent Youth and Life Would Be Perfect If I Lived in That House)

A.J. Jacobs

Heather Havrilesky's memoir Disaster Preparedness is about board games, inappropriate boyfriends, Star Wars, kickball, Amy Carter and chain stores — but it's also about life and death, and love and loss.

I thought it was great. (A.J. Jacobs, author of The Year of Living Biblically and The Guinea Pig Diaries)

Anne LaMott

I love Heather Havrilesky's work, and have been reading her for years. She's smart, hilarious, unique—just terrific.

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