From the Publisher
"[A] witty, vulnerable, and insightful collection that highlights a diverse roster of disabled writers. . . . This anthology is not only a joy to read but also a welcome introduction to innovative, intensely liberating approaches that are sure to change the way readers feel about traditional notions of intimacy. A poignant anthology about ability and intimacy that espouses a gorgeously original worldview."
—Kirkus Reviews
MAY 2024 - AudioFile
This fascinating collection of voices from the disabled community is presented with care by a talented team of narrators. In her introduction to these 40 powerfully affecting essays, activist Alice Wong, who edited this volume, stresses the value of seeking and exploring intimacy. Each essay opens a window that may contain familiar elements or, perhaps, a novel mode of expression. Most impressive are this production's precise audio descriptions of images included in the print edition. While nearly every essay is exquisitely rendered and narrated, standouts include Stephanie Gould and Nancy Wu's poignant narration of "Igniting Our Power by Reclaiming Intimacy," Carmen Jewel Jones's stirring evocation of "Disabled Queer Love Exists," and Danielle Morsberger's heartbreakingly vulnerable performance of "Rosasharon Teaches Me to Breathe." M.J. © AudioFile 2024, Portland, Maine
Kirkus Reviews
2023-10-20
Disabled writer and thinker Wong’s latest book focuses on expanding the idea of intimacy beyond ableist interpretations.
“When I started working on this book, I googled ‘disability intimacy,’ and the search results were disappointing and pathetic. ‘Ewwwwww,’ I muttered to myself.” So writes Wong, the author of Year of the Tiger, in this witty, vulnerable, and insightful collection that highlights a diverse roster of disabled writers. The book, which the author organizes partially around the central value of “tenderness,” delves into topics such as love, creativity, care, and power, all while treating intimacy as a vast and multifaceted concept that can be applied to individuals just as easily as collectives. The contributions include a photo essay about care work, a poem about kissing, and a hybrid essay about “Bondage, Domination / Discipline, Service / Submission, Sadism and Masochism,” also known as BDSM. Alongside these formally inventive approaches, other writers examine nontraditional subjects of intimacy, including, among others, a disabled pet and “a contraption called a Milwaukee back brace.” Just like Wong’s introduction, which includes both a confession about her romantic history and a gloriously poetic description of her sexual desire, most contributions are intensely confessional, inviting readers into the writers’ lives with radical, compassionate love and encouraging them to rethink their traditional views of everything from sex to love to care. Unfortunately, the sheer number of essays results in an overstuffed book that includes a handful of pieces whose quality doesn’t quite rise to the admittedly high bar of the most extraordinary ones. Overall, though, this anthology is not only a joy to read but also a welcome introduction to innovative, intensely liberating approaches that are sure to change the way readers feel about traditional notions of intimacy.
A poignant anthology about ability and intimacy that espouses a gorgeously original worldview.
