Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World
A mother writes honest, reflective letters to guide her son as he navigates through life with a common-sense appeal to the next generation: Drop the worst and take the best of what you're given.

In these days of nonstop, round-the-clock division, where confrontation is our most prevalent form of entertainment, we’ve forgotten the more fundamental things that unite us. We’ve lost track of the importance of conversations that foster growth, self-reflection, and discovery of one another while cultivating our sense of shared humanity.
 
In her new book, Dear Hartley, Jedediah Bila reignites much-needed conversations about everything from character and empathy to parenting and friendship, from education and family to fitness and food. Through fifty-two heartwarming letters to her son, Bila shares a road map she hopes he will revisit often, one he can turn to for strength and guidance throughout his life. Connecting her love for her child with her hopes and dreams for the next generation, Bila’s letters reveal an exciting path forward. Jam-packed with quick wit and authentic, unpredictable insights, these letters welcome us into Bila’s personal journey of mistakes made and lessons learned.
 
Dear Hartley presents a chance for us to find common ground and unite in our wish for a better, brighter world, especially for the children in our lives. An independent thinker, Bila has always been an outspoken proponent of common sense and truth, even when she found herself in situations where it wasn’t always welcome. Here, in these pages, she has an open platform to tell it like it is, and she does. Readers are invited to travel beside her with an open mind and an open heart as she explores the themes that touch us all.
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Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World
A mother writes honest, reflective letters to guide her son as he navigates through life with a common-sense appeal to the next generation: Drop the worst and take the best of what you're given.

In these days of nonstop, round-the-clock division, where confrontation is our most prevalent form of entertainment, we’ve forgotten the more fundamental things that unite us. We’ve lost track of the importance of conversations that foster growth, self-reflection, and discovery of one another while cultivating our sense of shared humanity.
 
In her new book, Dear Hartley, Jedediah Bila reignites much-needed conversations about everything from character and empathy to parenting and friendship, from education and family to fitness and food. Through fifty-two heartwarming letters to her son, Bila shares a road map she hopes he will revisit often, one he can turn to for strength and guidance throughout his life. Connecting her love for her child with her hopes and dreams for the next generation, Bila’s letters reveal an exciting path forward. Jam-packed with quick wit and authentic, unpredictable insights, these letters welcome us into Bila’s personal journey of mistakes made and lessons learned.
 
Dear Hartley presents a chance for us to find common ground and unite in our wish for a better, brighter world, especially for the children in our lives. An independent thinker, Bila has always been an outspoken proponent of common sense and truth, even when she found herself in situations where it wasn’t always welcome. Here, in these pages, she has an open platform to tell it like it is, and she does. Readers are invited to travel beside her with an open mind and an open heart as she explores the themes that touch us all.
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Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World

Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World

by Jedediah Bila
Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World

Dear Hartley: Thoughts on Character, Kindness, and Building a Brighter World

by Jedediah Bila

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A mother writes honest, reflective letters to guide her son as he navigates through life with a common-sense appeal to the next generation: Drop the worst and take the best of what you're given.

In these days of nonstop, round-the-clock division, where confrontation is our most prevalent form of entertainment, we’ve forgotten the more fundamental things that unite us. We’ve lost track of the importance of conversations that foster growth, self-reflection, and discovery of one another while cultivating our sense of shared humanity.
 
In her new book, Dear Hartley, Jedediah Bila reignites much-needed conversations about everything from character and empathy to parenting and friendship, from education and family to fitness and food. Through fifty-two heartwarming letters to her son, Bila shares a road map she hopes he will revisit often, one he can turn to for strength and guidance throughout his life. Connecting her love for her child with her hopes and dreams for the next generation, Bila’s letters reveal an exciting path forward. Jam-packed with quick wit and authentic, unpredictable insights, these letters welcome us into Bila’s personal journey of mistakes made and lessons learned.
 
Dear Hartley presents a chance for us to find common ground and unite in our wish for a better, brighter world, especially for the children in our lives. An independent thinker, Bila has always been an outspoken proponent of common sense and truth, even when she found herself in situations where it wasn’t always welcome. Here, in these pages, she has an open platform to tell it like it is, and she does. Readers are invited to travel beside her with an open mind and an open heart as she explores the themes that touch us all.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781546001034
Publisher: Center Street
Publication date: 11/16/2021
Pages: 288
Product dimensions: 6.70(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.30(d)

About the Author

About The Author
Jedediah Bila is a mom, wife, daughter, and superhero wannabe. A two-time Emmy Award nominee, she has been a host of ABC’s The View, Fox News' Fox & Friends Weekend, and the Lifetime special Abby Tells All. She is the author of #DoNotDisturb: How I Ghosted My Cell Phone to Take Back My Life (Harper, 2018). Bila grew up in a small condo on Staten Island with her mom, dad, and cat, Scungilli. She was valedictorian of her class at Wagner College and earned a master of arts in Spanish literature from Columbia University. She also studied at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in New York City. Bila held a variety of jobs prior to her television career, including teacher and academic dean, marketing associate in the insurance business, and cocktail waitress at a Manhattan lounge with way too many stairs. She currently shares her candid insights across the cultural and political spectrum on television, radio, podcasts, and social media. In her spare time, she reads memoirs, writes her heart out, watches ’80s and ’90s movies, and dreams about blue oceans and pink sunsets. She currently lives in New York City with her husband, son, and Maltipoo.

Table of Contents

Introduction: A Future Built on Letters 1

We Begin 5

Unexpected Journeys 11

Beware of the Bright Orange Hoodie 15

Life Is Not a Straight Line (into the Beautifully Unfamiliar) 19

Living the Dream 25

The Art & Craft of Conversation 31

Jumping to Assumptions 37

Fitted Sheets 41

Home of the Brave 43

Mealtime 59

Bigger Than You 63

Labels Are for Packages (and You Are Not a Package) 67

Hulk Baby 71

Trophies 79

Manhattan 85

Room at the Table 89

All Ears 101

Character 109

Romance 113

Friendship 117

Back Up on the Backup Plan 121

Comfy Clothes 131

Outer Spaces 137

Inner Spaces 141

Balance 145

Tumbles 147

Checked Boxes 151

Dance Parties 157

Empathy 159

Chivalry 163

Masculinity 167

Nurturing Nature 171

Leading from Within 175

Umbrella Man 181

Back to the Future Fuel 183

No to Yes 195

Desert island Dude 199

Mama Lives Hungry 205

We the People (Can Heal This Planet) 209

Spring-Cleaning (Closet Cleaner) 213

Festive Fun 217

Time Out from Tech 225

Emma 231

Descubrimientos 235

Heartbreak & Healing 239

Breathe 245

Two Beautiful Words 249

Celery Juice 253

Mindset Reset 255

Pulling a Bila 259

You, the Architect 265

Continuing On 267

Acknowledgments 271

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