Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond
When Deborah Gold and her husband signed up to foster parent in their rural mountain community, they did not foresee that it would lead to a roller-coaster fifteen years of involvement with a traumatized yet resilient birth family. They fell in love with Michael (a toddler when he came to them), yet they had to reckon with the knowledge that he could leave their lives at any time.

In Counting Down, Gold tells the story of forging a family within a confounding system. We meet social workers, a birth mother with the courage to give her children the childhood she never had herself, and a father parenting from prison. We also encounter members of a remarkable fellowship of Appalachian foster parents—gay, straight, right, left, evangelical, and atheist—united by love, loss, and quality hand-me-downs.

Gold’s memoir is one of the few books to deliver a foster parent’s perspective (and, through Michael’s own poetry and essays, that of a former foster child). In it, she shakes up common assumptions and offers a powerfully frank and hopeful look at an experience often portrayed as bleak.

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Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond
When Deborah Gold and her husband signed up to foster parent in their rural mountain community, they did not foresee that it would lead to a roller-coaster fifteen years of involvement with a traumatized yet resilient birth family. They fell in love with Michael (a toddler when he came to them), yet they had to reckon with the knowledge that he could leave their lives at any time.

In Counting Down, Gold tells the story of forging a family within a confounding system. We meet social workers, a birth mother with the courage to give her children the childhood she never had herself, and a father parenting from prison. We also encounter members of a remarkable fellowship of Appalachian foster parents—gay, straight, right, left, evangelical, and atheist—united by love, loss, and quality hand-me-downs.

Gold’s memoir is one of the few books to deliver a foster parent’s perspective (and, through Michael’s own poetry and essays, that of a former foster child). In it, she shakes up common assumptions and offers a powerfully frank and hopeful look at an experience often portrayed as bleak.

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Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond

Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond

by Deborah Gold
Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond

Counting Down: A Memoir of Foster Parenting and Beyond

by Deborah Gold

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When Deborah Gold and her husband signed up to foster parent in their rural mountain community, they did not foresee that it would lead to a roller-coaster fifteen years of involvement with a traumatized yet resilient birth family. They fell in love with Michael (a toddler when he came to them), yet they had to reckon with the knowledge that he could leave their lives at any time.

In Counting Down, Gold tells the story of forging a family within a confounding system. We meet social workers, a birth mother with the courage to give her children the childhood she never had herself, and a father parenting from prison. We also encounter members of a remarkable fellowship of Appalachian foster parents—gay, straight, right, left, evangelical, and atheist—united by love, loss, and quality hand-me-downs.

Gold’s memoir is one of the few books to deliver a foster parent’s perspective (and, through Michael’s own poetry and essays, that of a former foster child). In it, she shakes up common assumptions and offers a powerfully frank and hopeful look at an experience often portrayed as bleak.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780821422960
Publisher: Ohio University Press
Publication date: 02/26/2018
Edition description: 1
Pages: 256
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.80(d)
Age Range: 3 Months to 18 Years

About the Author

Deborah Gold is the pseudonym of a teacher, writer, and former foster parent. Licensed as foster parents for fifteen years, she and her husband eventually gained custody of two siblings.

Table of Contents

Mine & Yours, poem Michael age thirteen 1

I A Foster Family's Initiation

Zero to One Hundred 5

The Questions 94

II Learning the Road

DSS: Department of Social Services 109

Dry Creek Drive: The Highway to Hell, essay Michael 119

The Poem of Hell on Earth, poem Michael 121

Counting Down: Reunification 123

The Pickup Line 132

Gel Pens 138

In a Prison, essay Michael 148

What's in Your Toolbox? poem Michael 151

A Fork in the Road, essay Michael 153

Cleaning Up for DSS 157

She Said Yes 166

Shepherd's Way, essay Michael 168

III Reading around the Curves

Cody 173

The Fast and the Furious, or Other Visions of Cody 179

IV Door to Door, House to House

Halloween, essay Michael 207

Hallowtide 210

Uncle Jonah, essay Michael 230

Make It Stop Now, poem Michael 241

Coda: Coin in the Air 243

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