◆ Has communication in your relationship declined slowly over time and you can't remember when it started to fail?
◆ Would saying whatever is on your mind to your partner cause a catastrophe?
◆ Are there topics that, if broached, would increase tensions in the couple?
If you thought "that's exactly the situation I'm in", then read on.
Communication breakdowns can happen to even the happiest-looking couple, and just like an avalanche, it all starts with a snowflake.
First a little lie, something that is left unsaid so as not to upset the other person. Then the lies add up, the unsaid exceeds what can be said, and you end up having dinner in silence, scrolling through a social media feed that you don't care about.
If this happens it is because COMMUNICATION IN A COUPLE IS VITAL, connecting us to the people we love.
Many people think it's all about talking, but without good communication it's really hard to have not only a healthy relationship, but a successful one that lasts.
In my years of working as a couples therapist, I have seen hundreds of relationships fail, not because there wasn't the will to resolve the situation, but because of the inability to externalise what each person was feeling through communication.
That's why I wrote this book, to teach you how to:
- Listen to understand, not to defend yourself against what your partner is telling you
- Avoid harmful behaviour that makes the other person feel less valued;
- Base the relationship on honesty & transparency, even if this may hurt your partner;
- Use the 77 questions to start great conversations with your partner;
- Getting intimate with the person you love by lowering your emotional defenses;
AND MUCH MORE!
Imagine the legacy we could leave to the world if we could all communicate to the best of our ability.
It's not too late to start communicating for real - by looking for this book, you have already taken the first step towards a happy, fulfilling and positive relationship.
◆ What are you waiting for? Get this book and start communicating with your loved ones now!
