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When Des woke up on April 16, 2018, the morning of the Boston Marathon, it was 39 degrees and raining, with high, gusty winds. The weather didn’t bother her. In fact, she thought it might be a blessing. She was far from peak form—recovering from illness and questioning her running future—and didn’t expect much of herself that day.
But as she ticked off mile after mile in the brutal conditions, passing familiar landmarks on the course she knew by heart, something shifted. Opportunity unexpectedly presented itself. Des tapped into her inner strength and remembered all of the reasons she loved to race.
Coming off Heartbreak Hill at Mile 22, Des took the lead and never relinquished it, becoming the 2018 Boston Marathon champion and the first American woman to win the race in thirty-three years.
Her career has always been defined by tenacity and an independent spirit, stretching back to her first competitive race in San Diego, when she beat better-outfitted, more experienced kids. Des was a two-time All-American at Arizona State University, and as her collegiate years wound down, she decided she wasn’t done with the sport. Des gambled on herself and moved to Michigan to give professional running a try. As she rose through the elite ranks, she became increasingly determined to do things her way in an industry often bound by the status quo.
In her first book, readers will learn the story behind that resolve: the way Des trains, the way she thinks, her relationships with other great runners of her generation, and how much she values her family and friends. They’ll read about her deep connection to the most famous marathon in the world, her two very different Olympic experiences, and how she defined new goals and set a world record at the 50-kilometer distance.
Most of all, they’ll learn what makes her get up and run every day.
Product Details
| ISBN-13: | 9780593186657 |
|---|---|
| Publisher: | Penguin Publishing Group |
| Publication date: | 04/04/2023 |
| Sold by: | Penguin Group |
| Format: | eBook |
| Pages: | 272 |
| Sales rank: | 46,753 |
| File size: | 2 MB |
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PROLOGUE
I’m alone, out front.
I’ve just dropped the only woman between me and the 2018 Boston Marathon finish line. I brace for her to respond, to reappear in my peripheral vision.
I hold my breath— ot an advisable tactic at Mile 22—and I count.
One . . . two . . . three . . . four . . . five.
Nothing. Still by myself.
I exhale, releasing months of tension. Young Kenyan runner Gladys Chesir has been aggressive for most of this race. If I can’t hear her footfalls on my heels by now, that means she’s vulnerable. It’s time to ratchet up the pace and inflict pain.
I’ve visualized this scene, taking the lead coming off Heartbreak Hill, thousands of times over the last decade. I’ve pictured myself strong, confident, and pulling away under a brilliant blue April sky to win one of the most prestigious marathons in the world.
This moment looks nothing like that.
Rain is sluicing down in sheets, relentless. A fierce headwind batters my face, my chest, my quads. My hands are numb, and my feet are beyond sodden. There’s only a scattering of people watching by the side of the road, and if they’re cheering, the sound is muted by my drenched headband.
And yet. This is where I’ve always wanted to be. It’s a rare juncture in any career, and there’s no guarantee it’ll ever happen again. I have to yank myself out of my old sun-splashed dreamscape and be fully present here, now. I need to adapt to the opportunity that has opened up in front of me, on this course I know by heart.
It’s been a scant few hours since I stood barefoot in my darkened hotel room, completely devoid of hope, feeling none of the tenacity that had always defined me. I had arrived in Boston without my usual game plan to maximize my chances for a win. My typical meticulous checklist was down to one item: survive.
That all shifted after the start gun, with absolutely no planning on my part. Improvisation has brought me this far. Now it’s time to channel the instincts and knowledge I’ve sharpened and stowed away over twenty years. I’ve run thousands of miles so I would know what to do in the next four.
I press the Play button in my head and hear the voice of Frank Browne, my high school coach in California, whose combination of drive and irreverence once pulled the best out of me.
“I know you have the ability. One day you’re going to be in position and say, ‘Fuck it,’ and pull the trigger on one of these races.”
I let out another deep, explosive exhale. My mind clears of everything but one thought:
Can I win this thing?
THE OUTSIDER
It was my fault I was finishing up my last mile in the dark. My dad had pestered me all day about getting the run in, and out of spite, I’d procrastinated. The sun was setting by the time he drove me to the Silver Strand, a scenic sandbar that connects the towns of Imperial Beach and Coronado, just south of San Diego. People were packing up and leaving the beach, wiped out from hours of soaking in the sun and playing in the waves, as I started out on the flat north- south road. He followed me on his bike to keep me company.
I was running at a good clip about five miles into an eight-mile run when I realized I hadn’t heard the sound of my dad’s wheel for at least ten minutes. I knew one of his tires was losing air, and he’d been working hard to keep up with me. I could have stopped and waited for him to fix it; instead, I decided to press harder, to make him hurt, to make him worry about me being out there by myself. I leaned into the pace a little bit more, visualizing how I’d close out a race at the high school state meet. My dad was the chasing pack, and I was laying on the gas, putting them away for good.
I was so deep in my race dream by the time I hit the parking lot where we’d begun that I almost missed it in the pitch-black. Once I slowed down and walked a few strides to catch my breath, I felt a deep sense of accomplishment about putting in the miles. I was glad I hadn’t talked myself out of it. My dad had said that would happen the whole time he was pushing me to get out the door, but I would never tell him he was right. I sat on the curb next to his truck in satisfied silence. Fifteen minutes later, I began to hear the telltale squeak and the faint thud of a flat tire.
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By then, I already had a long, complicated competitive history with my dad, Dennis. Growing up, my older sister, Natalie, and I were required to play sports year- round so that we’d be too busy to get in trouble, insulated from a world our parents viewed as full of bad influences and dangerous pitfalls. We didn’t have the luxury of taking a season off, for fear that we’d become lazy, and we were expected to be willing to try it all.
Dad scoured the newspaper for new activities, then woke us up first thing on Saturday morning to tell us what he’d signed us up for: golf lessons one week, coed T‑ball the next. From the time I joined my first organized soccer team at age six, he held his own clinics for us after he got off his job as a construction worker— post-practice practices, as we thought of them. We did soccer drills, kicking a size 3 ball against the low retaining wall that bordered our front yard in San Diego while he barked instructions, or juggling the ball with our feet to master the ideal first touch. He coached our softball team, and when Natalie decided she wanted to pitch, I was happy to be her personal catcher. These were not casual sessions; they were about self-improvement, not enjoyment. He’d snap if we weren’t being serious enough in his eyes, like the time he ripped into Natalie for smiling too much as she tried to throw strikes. We were close in every way, born just eighteen months apart, and she was perfect in my mind—beautiful, adventurous, better at sports than I was. I couldn’t understand why he would criticize her for something that had nothing to do with how well she was pitching. I hunkered down, hiding behind my catcher’s mask, thinking, What level of fun are we allowed to have? He wouldn’t let it go and kept antagonizing her all evening. I had learned not to argue. We kept working hard to appease him and meet his demands to be aggressive on the field, to earn more playing time, to avoid embarrassing him.
Our mom, Nancy, had a more passive, level personality but was just as committed to our sporting life. She built her entire schedule around us, punching in for her shift as an AT& T operator at five in the morning so that she’d be off in time to pick us up from school, shuttle us to practices and games, and watch and critique every moment of play. In the ultimate parental sacrifice, she often agreed to stand in as goalie—without the benefit of gloves. She defended the goal as if her life were on the line, and left the field exhausted and bruised from shots that had ricocheted off every part of her body.
If we weren’t playing sports, we were watching them. My parents were die-hard San Diego Padres fans, and when the ball games stretched past bedtime, Natalie and I would wake up to find sticky notes with the final score posted on our bed frames. I inherited that baseball DNA and idolized outfielder Tony Gwynn, the perennial All-Star who’d starred at San Diego State University and never never left the city. He was as much a part of my hometown as the beaches and the US Navy base.
As I got older, youth soccer became as much of a frustration as a passion. I was an instinctive forward, quick to the ball, but too slight to put enough punch into my shots and often overpowered one‑on‑one. If I didn’t hold my own when things got physical, I’d be on the ground and soon on my way to warm the bench. “You have to play bigger than you are,” coaches told me. “Believe you’re bigger.” It was my first taste of being labeled an underdog—tiny finesse player battling it out among flying elbows and kicks to the shins, the one who didn’t belong but was determined to make it work. That was hard enough, but what really bothered me was the political crap. You didn’t have the newest shoes? See ya. Didn’t live in the upscale La Jolla neighborhood? Take your ball to a different group. Mom wasn’t willing to sleep with the coach? So long, starting lineup. The culture struck me as nuts.
I understood that competition was supposed to teach us how to succeed. I developed an early taste for success, but I resented my dad’s compulsive, vicarious need for me to achieve, as if I couldn’t be trusted to want it badly enough for myself. When the ball sailed into open space, I was expected to meet it perfectly every time, to avoid wasting the smallest opportunity. He hammered home his messages: “No shortcuts.” “Nothing is given, everything is earned.” “Do it twice, but the effort only counts once.” All solid concepts, but the sense that he was in this with me was offset by continual reminders that I owed him for anything I accomplished. The better I did, the more indebted he made me feel. When he shelled out extra cash for a private lesson to shore up a weakness, he let me know how much it cost and how easily he could take it all away.
The only person who could fully appreciate what it felt like to walk that tightrope was my sister. Natalie and I were constantly managing how to reconcile our dad’s good intentions, his desire for our lives to be better than his, with the way he came across. We navigated it differently. She was more willing to push back and battle it out verbally, while I tended to simmer and pick my spots. We each respected how the other one felt and traded off whose turn it was to take the heat, approaching it as teammates.
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I was ten years old the spring morning my dad informed me that he’d signed me up for the Junior Carlsbad, a one-mile road race for kids held during the Carlsbad 5000 race weekend. It was an introduction to the sport at the annual event that also featured elite races and a community 5‑kilometer run. I had never run just for the sake of running, but I wasn’t intimidated. Racing hard to be first to the soccer ball came naturally to me; I was accustomed to dominating warm‑up laps and fitness tests at soccer camps.
It was only when I arrived that I realized how out of place I was. You can’t see fitness, but you can dress the part, I thought, and my black cotton sweatpants and sweatshirt were clearly wrong for the occasion. The kids in the front row of the pack were decked out in their tiny two- inch split running shorts and, even on this cool morning, a lightweight tank- top singlet. They rolled through a warm‑up routine and got last- minute instructions from their coach. My dad’s ritual was simpler. He told me to get right into that dressed-for-success pack and run hard.
As soon as the gun went off, fitting in no longer mattered. Breaking away from the crowd was the point, so I did. I was the top girl finisher by a large margin and beat most of the boys. Yet my biggest reward wasn’t getting a medal or seeing a time on the clock—it was when my dad confirmed the otherness I’d felt at the start line. He loved that “we” had beat down the in‑crowd. “Oh, man, that was great,’’ he gushed. “You beat all those kids who are training for this. Look at them in all their fancy gear, and you just whooped up on them.” The chip on my shoulder was definitely hereditary.
The only running I did for the next couple of years was to stay in shape for soccer and softball, but when I was in seventh grade, my dad, ever in search of opportunity, found a slot for me on the MLK Blasters youth track-and-field club, based at Morse High School. The Blasters, one of the top groups in Southern California, gave me a different taste of otherness. The team was entirely African American and entirely made up of sprinters, yet I felt embraced. Coach Adam Henderson had Monica, his daughter and assistant coach, put together my workouts intervals on the track where I was alone other than the occasional presence of a local amateur runner named Doug. He was a slight Asian American guy in his forties who wore old-school split shorts and, impressed by what I was doing, told me more than once that I would go to the Olympics someday. I got used to the sound and feel of the cinders crunching under my feet, a tangible reminder that I was grinding away at getting better, and I loved the sensation of leaving Doug behind as we did our speed sessions. I thrived, winning races week after week in the San Diego youth division.
I competed in the 800-meter to 3,000-meter events most of the time, but on occasion, if a key athlete was injured or sick, I’d be chosen for the third leg of the 4×100-meter relay team.
Normally, the unfamiliar pressure of running the 100 would have terrified me, but I knew we had the ultimate ringer on our anchor leg: Monique Henderson. Monica’s little sister was my age but already setting records and showing signs of world-class talent. I could take the baton in first place, get crushed by the faster teams around me, and hand off to Monique in last place, yet she’d still pull off the win.
I liked that the clock didn’t play favorites. Snotty kids and their overbearing parents couldn’t influence what happened on the track. My hard work paid off in short order—I was almost immediately competitive in the youth ranks at the national level—and my steadily improving times became a source of both pride and slight anxiety for my mom and dad. They cheered me on and hoped running might help support my college education, but they didn’t want the sport to propel me too far from home, even though that’s exactly where my momentum was leading me. I felt an ownership over my results I hadn’t felt in team sports, as if I were amassing evidence my dad couldn’t dispute. I realized that running could be my ticket to escape his scrutiny, his temper, and ultimately, his home. Some of his values—his relentless work ethic, his insistence on doing things right, his disdain for shortcuts—were already deeply embedded in my psyche, but he lost his immediate leverage over me when I found my place in sport.
Running felt like independence. It gave me time that was completely within my control. I was in charge of how much effort I put in and what I took away. I could wrestle with daily problems in my high school world or tune them out and enjoy the scenery. I could run away from things I didn’t want to confront or run straight toward a goal. Choosing to run was the first real decision I ever made. I ran because I wanted to, after years of playing other sports because I was told to. It put distance between who I was and who other people told me I should be.
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