Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

Every year, thousands of expecting parents start prenatal testing to find out if it’s a boy or a girl…and instead learn the baby is going to die. 

Anencephaly. Trisomy 18. Potter’s sequence. They’re called “incompatible with life.” But they’re not incompatible with love.

Many doctors recommend immediate termination, but more parents are carrying their babies for as long as possible, often without guidance.

Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents after a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis addresses every aspect of the longest (and shortest) months of your life. From emotional issues to spiritual struggles to funeral-dress shopping while you’re still seven months pregnant, Carrying to Term offers strategies for parents struggling just to make it through the day.

You can forge a best-case scenario out of a worst-case scenario. You can bond with a baby who hasn’t yet been born. Parents have learned to make memories in brief windows of time, and you can too. 

Author Jane Lebak carried to term with Emily Rose, diagnosed with anencephaly at 22 weeks, and has been active in the infant loss community ever since. Based on her experiences and those of the CTT forum she moderated, the guide offers practical options for doing what parents do best: loving their babies.

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Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

Every year, thousands of expecting parents start prenatal testing to find out if it’s a boy or a girl…and instead learn the baby is going to die. 

Anencephaly. Trisomy 18. Potter’s sequence. They’re called “incompatible with life.” But they’re not incompatible with love.

Many doctors recommend immediate termination, but more parents are carrying their babies for as long as possible, often without guidance.

Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents after a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis addresses every aspect of the longest (and shortest) months of your life. From emotional issues to spiritual struggles to funeral-dress shopping while you’re still seven months pregnant, Carrying to Term offers strategies for parents struggling just to make it through the day.

You can forge a best-case scenario out of a worst-case scenario. You can bond with a baby who hasn’t yet been born. Parents have learned to make memories in brief windows of time, and you can too. 

Author Jane Lebak carried to term with Emily Rose, diagnosed with anencephaly at 22 weeks, and has been active in the infant loss community ever since. Based on her experiences and those of the CTT forum she moderated, the guide offers practical options for doing what parents do best: loving their babies.

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Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

by Jane Lebak
Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents After a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis

by Jane Lebak

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Every year, thousands of expecting parents start prenatal testing to find out if it’s a boy or a girl…and instead learn the baby is going to die. 

Anencephaly. Trisomy 18. Potter’s sequence. They’re called “incompatible with life.” But they’re not incompatible with love.

Many doctors recommend immediate termination, but more parents are carrying their babies for as long as possible, often without guidance.

Carrying to Term: A Guide for Parents after a Devastating Prenatal Diagnosis addresses every aspect of the longest (and shortest) months of your life. From emotional issues to spiritual struggles to funeral-dress shopping while you’re still seven months pregnant, Carrying to Term offers strategies for parents struggling just to make it through the day.

You can forge a best-case scenario out of a worst-case scenario. You can bond with a baby who hasn’t yet been born. Parents have learned to make memories in brief windows of time, and you can too. 

Author Jane Lebak carried to term with Emily Rose, diagnosed with anencephaly at 22 weeks, and has been active in the infant loss community ever since. Based on her experiences and those of the CTT forum she moderated, the guide offers practical options for doing what parents do best: loving their babies.


Product Details

BN ID: 2940154930175
Publisher: Philangelus Press
Publication date: 10/19/2017
Sold by: Draft2Digital
Format: eBook
File size: 460 KB

Table of Contents

Table of Contents

Introduction 3

Emily’s Story 16

Tips: Your Emotions 28

Tips: Bonding With Your Baby 41

Tips: Spiritual Issues 50

Tips: Things Your Baby Needs 68

Tips: Dealing with Family and Friends 76

Tips: Dealing with People who Just Don’t Understand 95

Tips: Practical Issues 113

Tips: The Birth and Birth Plans 122

Emily’s Birth Plan 141

Funeral Planning 147

But What If ... 164

Coping Afterward and Memorial Ideas 174

Memorial Ideas 191

Carrying Forward 207

The Friends and Family Section 215

The Section for Professionals 227

Our Aftermath 245

Other Resources 253

About the Author 257

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