Table of Contents
Introduction: Frieda 1
Chapter 1 Molly: "It's essential that we have other people." 15
Chapter 2 Desiree: "Feel what we feel and let it heal!" 24
Chapter 3 Ashley: "You don't have to be Wonder Woman." 32
Chapter 4 Suzy "No baby, no client." 42
Chapter 5 Kari: "As a woman of color, I really expected more." 52
Chapter 6 Abby: "Nobody walks you through the finances of loss." 67
Chapter 7 Rae: "We remade our lives around this." 81
Chapter 8 Joanna: "I knew my babies were out there." 97
Chapter 9 Noreen: "You just end up quiet." 112
Chapter 10 Jackie "I was entitled to feel a loss." 121
Chapter 11 Beth: "I needed to believe there was a greater purpose." 133
Chapter 12 Shirley: "Freeze your fucking eggs." 146
Chapter 13 Katie "Life seems so much more fragile now." 158
Chapter 14 Miranda: "I can't believe it's still like this!" 172
Chapter 15 Deven: "We're transformers." 182
Chapter 16 Rose: "Bottom line is, we were killing him." 192
Chapter 17 Janice: "The assumption is pregnancy." 207
Chapter 18 KT: "The world needs our love!" 219
Chapter 19 Golda: "I love being a woman." 228