Publishers Weekly
06/12/2023
Historian Shteir (The Steal) highlights Betty Friedan’s complex legacy as a tireless and mercurial crusader for feminism in this warts-and-all biography. In 1963, Friedan channeled her unhappy experiences as a daughter and wife into The Feminine Mystique, in which she described the “numbing gendered division of labor at home.” The book’s success helped transform Friedan from a left-wing print journalist into a popular—if controversial—speaker and a cofounder of the National Organization for Women (NOW). At the second NOW Congress in 1969, Friedan clashed with lesbian activists, calling them the “lavender menace” and attempting to distance NOW from their cause. Delving into Friedan’s reasoning, Shteir concludes that a combination of Midwestern prudishness, paranoia (Friedan “contended that the lesbians were CIA plants”), and left-leaning economic theories convinced her that material gains like wage equality, free abortion, and free childcare were paramount for women’s liberation, while “sexual politics” spearheaded by lesbian intellectuals like Kate Millet were a dangerous distraction. Shteir’s comprehensive research includes interviews with Millett and other second-wave feminists, and illuminating deep dives into archives recently made public. The result is a lucid portrait of Friedan as a bold yet flawed advocate for women’s equality. (Sept.)
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A New Yorker Best of the Week Pick“Rigorously fair.”—Moira Donegan, New Yorker“A lucid portrait of Friedan as a bold yet flawed advocate for women’s equality.”—Publishers Weekly“An evenhanded biography of a pugnacious revolutionary.”—Kirkus Reviews“In her nuanced, insightful biography, Shteir recovers the life and legacy of women’s rights activist Betty Friedan. . . . [A] vivid portrait of an activist icon.”—National Book Review, “Hot 5” list“A work of excellent scholarship. . . . Shteir tells all—[Friedan’s] triumphs, her failures; her strengths and weaknesses.”—Fran Castan, East Hampton Star“[A] delightful, well-researched piece of work.”—Women in Judaism2024 National Book Critics Circle Awards Finalist, Biography category“Rachel Shteir offers a vivid portrait of Friedan as a person—her difficult character, her immense accomplishments, her relationships with friends and family, her struggles in personal, professional and political life. The time is ripe for a reevaluation of Friedan.”—Katha Pollitt, author of Pro: Reclaiming Abortion Rights“Sympathetic but never less than clear-eyed, Rachel Shteir explores the achievements that put Betty Friedan at the center of the movement for women’s rights. An insightful and meticulously detailed portrait of one of America’s most successful political activists.”—Sigrid Nunez, author of Sempre Susan: A Memoir of Susan Sontag
Kirkus Reviews
2023-06-02
The tumultuous life of a tireless activist for women’s rights.
A drama critic and cultural historian, Shteir offers a corrective to negative images of noted feminist Betty Friedan (1921-2006) that accuse her of classism, racism, and homophobia. Drawing on more than 100 interviews, newly available archival sources, and private papers, Shtier provides a more nuanced perspective, portraying her as an idealistic, determined, and complex woman whose explosive temper and anger permeated personal and professional relationships. The eldest daughter in an upper-middle-class family of Reform Jews, she was a sickly, intellectually precocious child prone to rages. At 14, the “short, pudgy bibliophile” began high school, where she became drawn to theater. “Acting,” Shteir writes, “gave her a sense of how she could move audiences as well as craft an identity.” Accepted to many top colleges, she decided on Smith, where she excelled, becoming editor-in-chief of the Smith College Associated News. She was inspired further to pursue journalism after attending the Highlander Folk School, in Tennessee, which offered workshops on writing about labor and union issues. Shteir recounts Friedan’s many love affairs, her work as a reporter for the Federated Press news agency in New York, her estrangement from her family, and her encounters with antisemitism. In 1947, she married Carl Friedan, a theater producer; by 1956, they had three children, and in 1969, they divorced. In 1963, The Feminine Mystique, a book that “universalized female unhappiness,” catapulted Friedan to international fame. Shteir describes Friedan’s role in the founding of the National Organization of Women; her ongoing disputes with other members of the group as well as with noted feminists; and her unwavering support of abortion rights and the passage of the Equal Rights Amendment. Her second book, the essay collection It Changed My Life, revealed her as both a visionary and a “paranoid braggart slaying radical enemies.”
An evenhanded biography of a pugnacious revolutionary.
