Best Seat in the House: 18 Golden Lessons from a Father to His Son

by Jack Nicklaus II, Don Yaeger, Jack Nicklaus (Foreword by)

Overview

USA Today Bestseller

Now available in trade paper! Jack Nicklaus II shares stories, insights, and lessons he’s learned from his father, the “Golden Bear,” that will delight golf fans of all ages, encourage fathers, and inspire readers to focus on what’s most important in life: family.

Best Seat in the House, written with New York Times bestselling author Don Yaeger, gives us eighteen valuable lessons that Jack Nicklaus II learned from his father, PGA champion Jack Nicklaus. Although the “Golden Bear,” as he is known by fans, is widely regarded as the best golfer of all time, with a record number of PGA major championships, his life and values show that true legacy lives on through your children, grandchildren, and others we are blessed to call family and friends.

For the first time, the public is given the opportunity to see what made Jack Nicklaus an off-course success, including

• how he and his wife, Barbara, fashioned fifty-plus years of marriage, understanding that they both had to give of themselves “at least 95 percent of the time”
• the importance of having boundaries and limits that everyone in the family agrees on
• how Nicklaus taught his son Jack, who worked as his caddie for several years, to value his competitors and treat them as he would hope to be treated
• the need to be connected to what we’ll leave behind: our legacies

One June day, Jack Nicklaus II had just completed his second round in a Palm Beach County Junior Golf Association tournament and was sitting at the scorer’s table, signing his scorecard, when somebody told him his dad was on the telephone. He was a little frustrated because he didn’t want to be bothered on such an important day, but his dad wanted to know how he had played, so Jack II spent the next twenty minutes detailing every hole and every shot.

Afterward, his father said, “Jackie, would you like to know how your dad did today?” Of course he wanted to know, and he felt a little guilty for not asking. “Well, I just won the US Open.” It was Father’s Day 1980, and on that day Jack II learned a valuable lesson that he carried with him into adulthood: family is more important than anything in the world.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780785248361
Publisher:	Nelson, Thomas, Inc.
Publication date:	05/18/2021
Pages:	224
Sales rank:	669,537
Product dimensions:	6.00(w) x 9.30(h) x 1.20(d)

About the Author

Jack Nicklaus II is president of Nicklaus Design and vice chairman of Nicklaus Company. As a golf course designer, he works as both a solo designer and a collaborator with his father and has been recognized by his selection into the prestigious American Society of Golf Course Architects. He has designed nearly fifty golf courses that are open for play today. Jack II also serves on the board of directors of Nicklaus Children’s Health Care Foundation and is chairman of both the Muirfield Village Golf Club and Memorial Tournament.

The first of five children born to Jack and Barbara Nicklaus, Jack II played on the University of North Carolina golf team and had a brief career as a professional golfer, playing several years as a member of tours in Australia, Asia, and Canada, and on the European Tour. He also played in several PGA Tour events as a non- member. He is married to Allison (Alli) and is the father of five: Jack III, Christie, Charlie, Casey, and Will.

Don Yaeger is an 11-time New York Times Best-selling author, longtime Associate Editor at Sports Illustrated and today is one of the most in-demand public speakers on the corporate circuit. He delivers an average of 70 speeches a year to an average annual audience of 100,000. He lives in Tallahassee, FL, with his wife and two children. He is the host of the highly-rated Corporate Competitor Podcast, and offers training courses developed from his years of research into high performance habits. www.donyaeger.com

Table of Contents

Foreword Jack Nicklaus ix

Introduction: Learning from the Golden Bear xi

Chapter 1 Listen to Your Children 1

Chapter 2 Attend Your Children's Games and Activities 11

Chapter 3 Raise Each Child Differently 23

Chapter 4 Keep Teaching-Even If Your Child Doesn't Want to Learn 33

Chapter 5 Act Like a Champion 41

Chapter 6 See the Best in Others 53

Chapter 7 Protect Your Name 61

Chapter 8 Be a Parent to Your Children First-:and a Best Friend Later 71

Chapter 9 Stay Laser-Focused on What You Can Control 79

Chapter 10 Give More Than You Take in Your Relationships 87

Chapter 11 Build Your Legacy Every Day 99

Chapter 12 Be Prepared So You're Mentally Tough 111

Chapter 13 Show Faith Through Actions, Not Just Words 119

Chapter 14 Be Helpful but Keep the Competitive Fires Burning 127

Chapter 15 Be Ready to Seize Unexpected Opportunities 141

Chapter 16 Focus More on Your Family Than on Work 153

Chapter 17 Be Charitable and Don't Draw Attention to Yourself 163

Chapter 18 See the Bigger Picture 173

Afterword: Leave a Legacy That Lasts for Generations 185

Acknowledgments 191

Notes 193

About the Authors 197