Sex fantasies are normal. What people imagine inside their heads is usually much more exciting than what they experience in real life. I think that sex fantasies are a healthy release similar to dreams. I also believe that sharing fantasies is a powerful bonding experience. I began to write down sex fantasies that interested me in 2002. I felt most literary porn was too "vanilla" or just poorly done and I could do better.
Who Reads My eBooks?
I first published on BDSM websites and began to receive emails from men, women and couples in Europe, North America and Asia. The Internet allowed them to reveal their deepest, darkest sexual fantasies, which were quite extreme. These included rape, sexual humiliation, incest, BDSM, gang rape and even bestiality. These correspondents were from all walks of life, including doctors and teachers!
I realized that, as a writer, I was being given access to story ideas that people would probably not admit to loved ones. These were fantasies that people keep to themselves. They were ashamed or felt guilt about them. They were about taboo sex acts and scenes. Most who wrote me relished sex scenes where the victim was being debased and reduced to a state of abject humiliation. Punishment scenes turned them on, but what really mattered was the victim's shame and humiliation. The more exactly specified the depths could be... the better. They wanted the protagonist in the story to be reduced to the lowest sexual position. To be reduced to an object… a sex object. They liked graphic sado-masochistic scenes featuring punishment, discipline, torture culminating in sexual humiliation and degradation.
Many of them wanted me to turn their humiliation fantasy (often about being turned into a sex slave) into an eBook. In 2013, Talbot Press began publishing my work. Since then, I've written 85 erotic eBooks.
I think erotic eBooks are a safe, sane way to deal with one's private thoughts and feelings. But the general public would be shocked by these fantasies and the eBooks I've written based on them. Perhaps only sex researchers or psychiatrists can explain these fantasies and the porn they have inspired.
Private BDSM Fantasies and More...
Many correspondents wanted a specific fantasy. Some emailed scenarios and scenes, villains and locales. Most correspondents had no desire to live out their fantasies. (But a few do.) Almost every woman who wrote me emphasized that, in her personal life, she was a "feminist." These fantasies became my Private BDSM Fantasies series. I also have other taboo fantasies in the Erotic Novelettes, Hard Core Novellas and MILFS in BDSM Hell series. These are all available at https://www.talbotpress.com.
Who Is Leslie Parma?
Some fans think I'm a man and some imagine that I'm a woman. It is OK if correspondents see me as one or the other. Leslie Parma is a pen name and I chose it because it's gender neutral. Since I have another life, I needed a pen name. I hope my fans understand and continue to support me. I think my writing works because it allows people to fantasize (and masturbate) without any guilt.
Cheers,
Leslie Parma
P.S. Write and tell me your fantasies; and you may see them in an eBook.
Contact me at: leslieparma@talbotpress.com
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/LeslieParma
