A Boy Like You

by Frank Murphy, Kayla Harren (Illustrator)

Overview

Carolyn W. Field Award (Pennsylvania Library Association) - Honors Award 2020-2021 Keystone to Reading Elementary Book Award List 2020 Amelia Bloomer List Winner of the 2019 Eureka! Gold Awards Winner of Best of 2019 Kids Books - Future Classics Category There's more to being a boy than sports, feats of daring, and keeping a stiff upper lip. A Boy Like You encourages every boy to embrace all the things that make him unique, to be brave and ask for help, to tell his own story and listen to the stories of those around him. In an age when boys are expected to fit into a particular mold, this book celebrates all the wonderful ways to be a boy.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781534110465
Publisher:	Sleeping Bear Press
Publication date:	07/15/2019
Series:	Like You
Pages:	32
Sales rank:	326,026
Product dimensions:	9.10(w) x 11.10(h) x 0.40(d)
Lexile:	500L (what's this?)
Age Range:	6 - 7 Years

About the Author

Frank Murphy writes children’s books and teaches elementary school. Every school year he views each new class as a “family”—for over 30 years now! His “at home” family includes people and puppies with the names: Carla, Haley, Griffin, Chase, Kathleen, Francis, Jumper, Cali, Jack, Katie Claire, all the Saglimbenis, the Murphys, and many more.

Kayla Harren graduated from the School of Visual Arts in New York City. She is the illustrator of many picture books, including A Boy Like You and A Girl Like You. She grew up in a family with her mom, dad, and older brother. She has also been included in sports team families, art club families, and friendship families. Kayla lives in Minnesota with her own little family made up of her husband and adopted dogs.

Table of Contents

Beginning of text Author's note about being strong From the author

Editorial Reviews

05/27/2019

“The world needs a boy like you,” Murphy writes assuredly as a boy is shown standing out from a variably diverse crowd. Encouraging readers to contribute positively to the world around them, Harren’s images show the boy sitting “with the new kid,” recycling a bottle, telling a passerby he’s dropped his wallet, and expressing himself in healthy ways (looking into adulthood, the boy imagines himself in different professions, including construction worker, artist, and teacher). Being brave means sometimes being afraid, Murphy asserts, and asking for help and not being afraid to cry are also signs of strength. The story is directed squarely at boys, but Harren’s illustrations show representations of all kinds of kids and families. Being a boy can mean many things, Murphy suggests, but being “a smart boy, a brave boy, a kind boy” are the first important steps toward manhood. Ages 6–7. (July)

Publishers Weekly

08/09/2019

PreS-Gr 2-Short motivational messages speak directly to young boys: "You are the only YOU there is. And the world needs a boy like you." Some tips on being a great teammate are shared, like "Play hard, but play fair" and "Say 'Nice goal!' and 'Good try!' Don't say 'You throw like a girl.' Ever." Moving beyond the sports field, boys are encouraged to be community-minded, curious, and compassionate. The advice also rebukes stereotypes with such truisms as "You can't be brave without first being afraid" and "Cry. This shows you're strong." In Harren's realistic and nuanced artwork, a young boy demonstrates daily acts of kindness, like eating lunch with a new classmate, helping his younger sister tie her shoelaces, and holding the door open for a woman laden with shopping bags. An author's endnote elaborates on the "many ways to be strong." VERDICT A strong offering that models pro-social behavior and helps disrupt unhealthy stereotypes about boyhood and masculinity. Pair with Paris and Jason Rosenthal's Dear Boy.-Linda Ludke, London Public Library, Ont.

School Library Journal

2019-05-26
The title answers a question: What does the world need?

In simple, aphorism-laced language, Murphy offers a positive vision of masculinity that focuses on what he dubs " ‘inside' strength"—the sort that privileges kindness, respect for self and for others, knowing when to ask for help, and daring to dream big. He begins with guidelines for right behavior on the playing field ("Say ‘Nice goal!' and ‘Good try!' / Don't say ‘You throw like a girl.' Ever"). With the heartily welcome reminder that "there's so much more than sports," he goes on to suggest that spending time in a garden, kitchen, or science lab, playing music, reading or writing stories can all be just as valid and satisfying. Likewise showing consideration for others, working toward goals, and finally realizing that "the best you / is the you that is ALL you…. / Not a little you and a little someone else." Harren adds life and color to this earnest but not exactly electrifying advice in vignettes depicting a black lad with mobile features and interracial parents playing or otherwise posing in various settings amid a thoroughly diverse cast of peers, pets, and passersby. The figures, human and otherwise, are rendered with fetching individuality that really comes out in group scenes…particularly on the closing pages, where the illustrator lines up smiling young children, including girls, in informal rows.

This visually buoyant book may well succeed at redirecting gender expectations—though not bending them. (Picture book. 6-8)

Kirkus Reviews