A Beautiful Tragedy: A Navy SEAL Widow's Permission to Grieve and a Prescription for Hope

by Char Fontan Westfall, Marcus Luttrell (Foreword by)

Overview

"While there are many excellent books and movies portraying the heroics of our fallen heroes, it is not often that we are offered an inside look at the lives of the loved ones left behind. Char does an excellent job in her book laying bare her experiences with her warrior husband, from the time she met him to the time she lost him and afterwards. We tend to overlook the sacrifices and agonizing pain of the families of those whose battlefield experiences become the stuff of legends. This book gives us an opportunity to see inside the feelings of someone who truly loved her Navy SEAL husband who was taken far too early. Jacques was on the bird that came to get my teammates and I out of the hornet's nest. He was and will always be remembered as a warrior who never quit. My admiration for Char and all of the families who lost their loved ones that horrific day will never cease." --Navy SEAL and bestselling author of "Lone Survivor" Marcus Luttrell

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781733428071
Publisher:	Ballast Books
Publication date:	10/07/2020
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Pages:	192
File size:	590 KB

About the Author

Charissa Fontan Westfall is a wife, mother, Christian, and the surviving widow of Navy SEAL Jacques Fontan, who was killed in action during the rescue mission depicted in the book and movie Lone Survivor.

Char's life was turned upside down the day her husband was killed in service to his country. Her dreams of being happy on earth and having a family with Jacques were crushed, leaving her seemingly without hope or a future. Over the next year she tried to cope with her enormous loss, but to no avail. With her visions of the future crushed, she began a downward spiral that manifested itself in extreme anger. She was mad at everyone, even God, who she'd always had such a strong relationship with.

Through the help of family and friends and several survivor foundations, she began to seek help for her anger and grief.

Char turned to counselors who helped her process all the questions she had. While she does not hesitate to admit that many questions remain unanswered, she is the first to also admit her biggest mistake was not seeking therapy right away and choosing instead to deal with her loss alone.

Today, Char's life is a picture of restoration and hope. One of her favorite things to tell people is that God blessed her life twice with love. She married Drew Westfall in 2008 and they were blessed with their first child in 2009 and their third in 2014. It was because of Drew’s encouragement to share her story and support other surviving spouses that she became involved in several foundations that help those dealing with loss. Her involvement has included work with the Special Ops Survivor Foundation, being on the board of the Lone Survivor Foundation, in addition to working with the Boot Campaign and Team Never Quit, all of which have made a difference in both her continued healing and that of others.

What People are Saying About This

From the Publisher

"While there are many excellent books and movies portraying the heroics of our fallen heroes, it is not often that we are offered an inside look at the lives of the loved ones left behind. Char does an excellent job in her book laying bare her experiences with her warrior husband, from the time she met him to the time she lost him and afterwards.

"We tend to overlook the sacrifices and agonizing pain of the families of those whose battlefield experiences become the stuff of legends. This book gives us an opportunity to see inside the feelings of someone who truly loved her Navy SEAL husband who was taken far too early.

"Jacques was on the bird that came to get my teammates and I out of the hornet’s nest. He was and will always be remembered as a warrior who never quit. My admiration for Char and all of the families who lost their loved ones that horrific day will never cease."

-Navy SEAL and bestselling author of Lone Survivor, Marcus Luttrell

"Ask any warrior, and they’ll tell you that in combat, politics go out the window. They’re fighting for the person beside them so they can do one thing: complete the mission, survive, and return home to their loved ones. These are the stories of war that find their way into books, movies, and unit lore.

"Lesser told are accounts of survival on the home front, where life must go on, even, or especially when, a warrior does not come home. Char Fontan Westfall received that heart-breaking, life-changing knock on the door when her Navy SEAL husband was killed in action during combat operations in Afghanistan. She has written a deeply personal story of love and war in which pride for the past battles guilt for the future. The result is an emotional roller coaster of a memoir that honors both the warrior she lost, and the new love she found."

-Eric Blehm, best selling author of Fearless, Legend, and The Only Thing Worth Dying For.

Editorial Reviews

"While there are many excellent books and movies portraying the heroics of our fallen heroes, it is not often that we are offered an inside look at the lives of the loved ones left behind. Char does an excellent job in her book laying bare her experiences with her warrior husband, from the time she met him to the time she lost him and afterwards.

"We tend to overlook the sacrifices and agonizing pain of the families of those whose battlefield experiences become the stuff of legends. This book gives us an opportunity to see inside the feelings of someone who truly loved her Navy SEAL husband who was taken far too early.

"Jacques was on the bird that came to get my teammates and I out of the hornet’s nest. He was and will always be remembered as a warrior who never quit. My admiration for Char and all of the families who lost their loved ones that horrific day will never cease."

-Navy SEAL and bestselling author of Lone Survivor, Marcus Luttrell


"Ask any warrior, and they’ll tell you that in combat, politics go out the window. They’re fighting for the person beside them so they can do one thing: complete the mission, survive, and return home to their loved ones. These are the stories of war that find their way into books, movies, and unit lore.

"Lesser told are accounts of survival on the home front, where life must go on, even, or especially when, a warrior does not come home. Char Fontan Westfall received that heart-breaking, life-changing knock on the door when her Navy SEAL husband was killed in action during combat operations in Afghanistan. She has written a deeply personal story of love and war in which pride for the past battles guilt for the future. The result is an emotional roller coaster of a memoir that honors both the warrior she lost, and the new love she found."

-Eric Blehm, best selling author of Fearless, Legend, and The Only Thing Worth Dying For.

From the Publisher