100 Days of Weight Loss: The Secret to Being Successful on Any Diet Plan

by Linda Spangle

Overview

This personal growth diet companion encourages dieters--no matter what diet plan they are on--to stick to it by giving them the tools to address the issues behind their eating habits and to make the right choices.

Going on a diet is easy, staying on a diet is hard and it is the consistent, long-term lifestyle change that results in real success. This book is not a diet but a diet companion. There are 100 short lessons that provide coping skills, behavioral tools, and personal growth ideas that serve as a companion and encourager and give dieters the daily strength to stick with their resolution. Spangle tackles the emotional and psychological issues of weight loss, which is missing from most diet plans. They tell you what to eat. 100 Days of Weight Loss gives you the personal tools to make the right choices.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781418573102
Publisher:	HarperCollins Christian Publishing
Publication date:	08/22/2023
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Pages:	242
Sales rank:	167,111
File size:	1 MB

About the Author

Linda Spangle is a registered nurse with a masters degree in Health Education. She has a highly successful coaching and education program called Weight Loss for Life and she speaks to groups and holds workshops around the country. Her first book, Life is Hard, Food is Easy (Lifeline Press) has received national acclaim.

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100 DAYS of WEIGHT LOSS

The Secret to Being Successful on Any Diet Plan

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By LINDA SPANGLE

Thomas Nelson

Copyright © 2007 Linda Spangle
All right reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-4016-0373-1

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Chapter One

Days 1-10

SET UP FOR SUCCESS

Day 1 I used to be that way ... Day 2 Interested or committed? Day 3 Do it anyway Day 4 Boundaries, not diets Day 5 Magic notebook Day 6 Protect your program Day 7 I can do it! Day 8 Help me, please ... Day 9 Here's what I want Day 10 Appreciate good support

Day 1

I used to be that way ...

You are so determined to make this program work. This time you really want to stay on your weight-loss plan and reach your goal. But deep inside, you may be afraid you haven't changed at all and that you'll quit your program long before the 100 days are up.

Perhaps a tiny voice is reminding you of your past failures with dieting. In the beginning, you're always very excited and motivated. But after a few weeks, your enthusiasm drops, and without meaning to, you slip up.

Maybe you sneak an extra candy bar or a bowl of ice cream at the end of a bad day. Then you reason that since you've already blown it, you can go ahead and eat more. Soon you get discouraged with your behavior and eventually you quit your diet completely, just as you always do.

Change your thinking

Stop right there! Your past does not determine your future. In fact, your previous failures have absolutely no effect on your ability to succeed now. Starting today, eliminate the belief that things always go a certain way or that you never stay with your goals. Whenever those doubts creep back in, immediately give yourself this new message:

I used to be that way, but now I'm different!

This powerful statement completely ignores whatever you did before and instead promises you can change your outcome entirely. Rather than being fearful that you'll repeat the past, build a new way of thinking.

Make up a new ending

Because now you're different, you can do anything. You can even create different endings for your old negative patterns. Suppose you've been worried because you "always gain your weight back." Come up with a new statement that describes what you can do to prevent this.

For example, you might say, "I used to give up on a diet after a few weeks. But now, I pull out my journal every day and use writing to keep myself on track."

When doubts creep in, remind yourself that now you handle life differently. Go ahead and invent entirely new outcomes for your goals, then remind yourself often about your ideas. With time these patterns will become permanent and your dream of success will come true.

TODAY

Make a list of any fears or negative behaviors that have hurt your weight-loss success in the past. Read each one out loud, and then say, "I used to be that way, but now I'm different." Then write new endings for them by completing this sentence: I used to _______________ (fill in your old behavior), but now I _______________ (write in your new ending). Read these new outcomes often, and then live in a way that makes them true.

Day 2

Interested or committed?

Debbie was discouraged. "Whenever I start a new diet, I'm so determined to stay on it until I reach my goal. But after just a few weeks, something comes up-a party, someone's birth-day-and next thing I know, I slip off my plan and give up."

Do you feel totally determined to stick with your efforts, or do you entertain a few nagging thoughts about "having fun" instead of staying on your plan? If you tend to start and stop every time you diet, you may want to look at the difference between being interested and being committed.

Interest slips away quickly

With interested, you tend to stay with your plans only until something better comes along. For example, you may decide that you're interested in losing weight, but when someone brings doughnuts to work, you quickly go off your diet.

When you're just interested in dieting, you depend on seeing results to keep you on target. So as long as the scale keeps moving, you stay motivated. But if you hit a plateau or you don't see much progress for a few weeks, you may throw your program out the window.

Then when you struggle, you blame everyone but yourself. You accuse your friends of ruining your diet because they eat potato chips in front of you. In addition, you fall into "if only" thinking, saying things like, "If only I had more time, more money, a new job, or a supportive spouse, then I'd be able to stay on my plan."

Committed means "no matter what!"

When you're truly committed to achieving your goals, you have an entirely different outlook. Unlike being interested, where it doesn't take much to detract you from your goals, being committed means you stick with it, no matter what.

Rather than depending on results to help you stay on track, you work on keeping your motivation strong, knowing that results will follow. You don't blame circumstances or other people for your struggles. Instead, you stay on your diet in spite of not having enough money, time, or supportive friends and family members.

Look carefully at your current efforts. If you tend to easily fall away from your weight-loss plan, decide if you're taking the interested approach. If so, strive for being committed instead. Start adopting a "no matter what" attitude, then convince yourself you can stay with your goals regardless of your daily challenges.

TODAY

Decide that you will always be committed to your weight-loss plan, not just interested. In your notebook, describe how you will stick with your program, no matter what. Do at least one thing today that demonstrates you are truly committed. For example, take a walk or eat your vegetables-no matter what.

Day 3

Do it anyway

I don't feel like exercising today! Does this sound familiar? Then what happens? Do you push yourself and exercise in spite of not feeling like it? Or do you give in and hang out on the couch because you don't feel like making the effort?

Right now, you may be solidly committed to your goals. But what happens when you don't feel like cooking healthy meals or following your diet plan? If you aren't careful, you can easily slide back from being committed to being just interested.

Committed means do it anyway

You don't usually wait until you feel like going to work. You just go. The same thing is true for visiting your mother or changing dirty diapers. Because you consider these things to be important, you do them regardless of how you feel at the moment.

In the same way, you don't have to feel like working on your weight-loss plan to stick with your program. To improve your commitment, learn to focus on your actions, not just your feelings. On days you're not in the mood for exercising or eating right, tell yourself to do it anyway.

Then skip the leftover dessert and eat your fruit instead. Get up off the couch and put on your workout shoes. If you're really committed to your goals, you'll make these choices no matter what, regardless of whether you feel like it or not. Each day, take a few steps that will move you forward, even if you don't feel like it. Remember that when you're truly committed, you do it anyway.

Here's a summary of the differences between people who are interested in their goals compared to those who are committed.

People who are interested in losing weight

Stick with it until something better comes along

Take action only if they "feel like" doing it

Need to see results in order to stay motivated

Blame people or circumstances for their struggles

Easily give up when they face challenges

People who are committed to losing weight

Stick with their plans no matter what Take action whether they feel like doing it or not

Assume that if they stay motivated, results will follow

Take responsibility for their own actions

Keep going in spite of challenges and setbacks

TODAY

In your diet or exercise plan, identify a task you don't feel like doing, and then do it anyway!

Notice how it feels to accomplish a goal by taking a "no matter what" approach to it.

In your notebook, make a list of actions you plan to stick with today, regardless of how you feel at the moment.

Day 4

Boundaries, not diets

You've probably heard people say that diets are bad for you and that you should "never diet again!" The problem isn't usually with diets themselves, but with the rigid, perfectionist ways we use them.

If you're like most people, when you're on a diet, you try hard to follow it perfectly. Each day you strive to take in the exact number of calories, fat grams, or carbohydrates allowed by the plan.

But if you slip up and eat a delicious (but forbidden) food, you figure you've blown it, so you might as well eat more. Soon you throw the entire diet out the window. This all-or-nothing approach never works because when you are off your diet, you cancel out the progress you made while you were on it.

Boundaries define your diet

Like it or not, to lose weight, you have to follow some type of system. Your plan can be quite rigid and meticulous, or as simple as deciding you'll eat less and increase your level of exercise. Instead of getting stuck on the word diet, learn to think of it as setting boundaries for your eating plan.

Picture your diet program as a road or a path. You can define the boundaries of your diet road based on the number of calories, points, or other factors you choose to follow. As you walk on the road each day, your goal is to stay between the sides of the road. Unlike strict or rigid diet plans, boundaries stay flexible. They provide guidelines, but at the same time they allow for common sense and good judgment.

During times when you're strong and focused on your diet, you move the boundaries closer together, making the road narrower. When you take a break from your program or work on maintenance, you widen the boundaries and allow more variety in your plan. But even on a really bad day, you never eliminate the road or get off of it completely.

Set guidelines, not rules

Boundaries should give you benefits, not punishment! They should provide guidelines for you to live by, but not burden you with rules. You can define boundaries for any type of diet or weight-loss approach. Depending on your needs, you can simply adjust the edges of your plan to match where you are in life. By doing this, you'll be far more successful than if you punish yourself every time you step off the road.

TODAY

In your notebook, draw a line down the middle of the page, creating two columns.

Label one column "Narrow road" for your diet plan. Label the other "Wider road" for your maintenance or alternative eating plan.

Under the titles, define your eating and exercise plans for each of these roads. Then decide on ways you can be flexible with them without losing sight of the healthy road you want to follow.

(Continues...)

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Table of Contents

Contents

Welcome!....................xi
DAYS 1-10 SET UP FOR SUCCESS Day 1 I used to be that way ....................2
Day 2 Interested or committed?....................4
Day 3 Do it anyway....................6
Day 4 Boundaries, not diets....................8
Day 5 Magic notebook....................10
Day 6 Protect your program....................12
Day 7 I can do it!....................14
Day 8 Help me, please ....................16
Day 9 Here's what I want....................18
Day 10 Appreciate good support....................20
DAYS 11-20 PUT FOOD IN ITS PLACE Day 11 Two purposes of food....................24
Day 12 Fuel or filler....................26
Day 13 Oops, I forgot to eat!....................28
Day 14 Morning affects evening....................30
Day 15 First two bites....................32
Day 16 Nurturing power of food....................34
Day 17 Stop wasting food....................36
Day 18 Retrain eating habits....................38
Day 19 Eat reasonable amounts....................40
Day 20 Half-off special....................42
DAYS 21-30 CONSCIOUS EATING Day 21 Eat with awareness....................46
Day 22 Multitask with food....................48
Day 23 Savoring....................50
Day 24 Eat for satisfaction....................52
Day 25 Smaller amounts, less often....................54
Day 26 When food disappoints you....................56
Day 27 Eat dessert when it's special....................58
Day 28 Eating because it's there....................60
Day 29 Handheld foods....................62
Day30 Postpone eating....................64
DAYS 31-40 LISTEN TO YOUR BODY Day 31 Hunger scale....................68
Day 32 The five-hour rule....................70
Day 33 Fullness scale....................72
Day 34 Listen accurately....................74
Day 35 The eating pause....................76
Day 36 Slow down your eating....................78
Day 37 I love to eat!....................80
Day 38 Food as power....................82
Day 39 Flavor or texture?....................84
Day 40 Having an eating experience....................86
DAYS 41-50 JUMP-START MOTIVATION Day 41 Motivation is a choice....................90
Day 42 Make it matter....................92
Day 43 Choose to, not have to....................94
Day 44 It's not the right time....................96
Day 45 Food-important or not?....................98
Day 46 If not food, then what?....................100
Day 47 Kick the can't....................102
Day 48 You gotta want to ....................104
Day 49 Just do something....................106
Day 50 10-minute solution....................108
DAYS 51-60 EMOTIONAL EATING Day 51 What is emotional eating?....................112
Day 52 Food is an instant fix....................114
Day 53 Food is my best friend....................116
Day 54 Eating to feel better....................118
Day 55 Food is the consolation prize....................120
Day 56 Head hunger....................122
Day 57 Head hunger "insteads"....................124
Day 58 Heart hunger....................126
Day 59 Heart hunger "insteads"....................128
Day 60 Create a stop sign....................130
DAYS 61-70 TRIGGERS AND WORD PLAY Day 61 Food triggers....................134
Day 62 Non-food triggers....................136
Day 63 Buffers....................138
Day 64 Instant tools for triggers....................140
Day 65 Stimulus narrowing....................142
Day 66 Don't even start!....................144
Day 67 Never say "I blew it"....................146
Day 68 I had a "pause"....................148
Day 69 No cheating allowed....................150
Day 70 No good or bad....................152
DAYS 71-80 GROWING STRONGER Day 71 It's too hard!....................156
Day 72 Sneak eating....................158
Day 73 All-or-nothing....................160
Day 74 Watch for rainbows....................162
Day 75 Small wins....................164
Day 76 Emotional safety....................166
Day 77 The healing power of rituals....................168
Day 78 Ditch the critic....................170
Day 79 Live as a "healthy" person....................172
Day 80 Get a new title....................174
DAYS 81-90 LONG-TERM SUCCESS Day 81 Unhook the chains....................178
Day 82 Last-straw eating....................180
Day 83 No more deprivation....................182
Day 84 The expectation square....................184
Day 85 Let it go....................186
Day 86 Minimize the damage....................188
Day 87 Old habits....................190
Day 88 I do care!....................192
Day 89 At my best....................194
Day 90 Live "as if"....................196
DAYS 91-100 PUT IT INTO ACTION Day 91 Obesity is a condition....................200
Day 92 Accept the solution....................202
Day 93 20-year plan....................204
Day 94 Three columns of weight loss....................206
Day 95 Set your intentions....................208
Day 96 What will it take?....................210
Day 97 Use what works....................212
Day 98 New Year's resolution....................214
Day 99 It's not in here!....................216
Day 100 This is how I live!....................218
Index....................221