All the $#!T I Wish I Knew in High School

All the $#!T I Wish I Knew in High School

by Tom Borak
All the $#!T I Wish I Knew in High School

All the $#!T I Wish I Knew in High School

by Tom Borak

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Overview

All the $#!T I Wish I Knew in High School is a guidebook for young men navigating the formative, often precarious, bridge between childhood and adulthood. It offers a relatable, transparent, and heart-felt conversation about challenging topics and situations that are rarely discussed with the raw honesty they deserve.

 

It is a resource for young men who have pressing questions about difficult topics but either do not have anyone to ask or are too embarrassed to do so. It is for young men growing up without a father figure or role model in their life. It is for young men who are looking for a fresh, honest, and responsible alternative to the toxic masculinity that has permeated our culture.

 

Yes, this book tackles the usual suspects of sex, pornography, drugs, and alcohol. However, it also deconstructs topics that are more personal and shame-ridden, like the socially-perpetuated beliefs that "real men don't cry," and showing empathy in any context is a sign of weakness. It examines the very question of what it means to be a man and exposes many of the lies young men tell themselves that keep them up at night, like the belief that failure is final, money is the key to happiness, and that they need to have their future "all figured out" by the time they leave high school. It also shares and relates universal truths, like the truth about bullying and what love really means.

 

The book is composed as a series of personal letters from an uncle to his nephew. Each chapter/letter incorporates true stories and situations from the author's life, making the topics approachable, relevant, and relatable to the reader. Presenting the content in this way disarms the natural defensive stance many young people take when receiving advice. Without being personally challenged or threatened, the reader is given space to absorb the information passively, as if eavesdropping on a private conversation, permitting him to think critically about each topic and consider how the lessons contained in each letter can be applied to his own life.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781088033166
Publisher: Team T&A
Publication date: 07/24/2022
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 410
File size: 3 MB
Age Range: 14 - 18 Years

Table of Contents

Table of Contents


1.    This is what it's all about

2.    What it means to be a man

3.    Let's be honest: It's time to stop lying to yourself

4.    Lie #1: Real men don't cry

5.    Lie #2: Who I am right now is who I'm destined to be

6.    Lie #3: I should have it all figured out by now

7.    Lie #4: Failure is final

8.    Lie #5: Money is the key to happiness

9.    Lie #6: The more friends I have, the better

10.  Lie #7: I am special

11.  The truth of the matter

12.  The truth about sex and pornography

13.  The truth about love

14.  The truth about bullying

15.  The truth about drugs and alcohol

16.  The truth about strength and fitness

17.  The truth about nutrition

18.  The truth about school

19.  The last word

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